Freedom to Choose ~ Your Relationship Adventure
Unconditional Love
Unconditional love is not something you give.
It is something that you become from within.
Live it…by unconditionally loving you.
Whether ENHANCING your relationship, ATTRACTING the one you want, ENDING one with love, or CONNECTING more effectively with family & friends…
YOU have the power to choose.
YOU have the power to choose and the more love flows to and from you naturally. As your prejudices and judgments melt away, appreciation and gratetitude heal your heart, so that love becomes your natural way of being once again.
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Unconditional love is not something you give.
It is something that you become from within.
Live it…by unconditionally loving you.
Whether ENHANCING your relationship, ATTRACTING the one you want, ENDING one with love, or CONNECTING more effectively with family & friends…
YOU have the power to choose.
YOU have the power to choose and the more love flows to and from you naturally. As your prejudices and judgments melt away, appreciation and gratetitude heal your heart, so that love becomes your natural way of being once again.
Regularly Priced at $24.95 Order Today and SAVE
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YOUR CHOICES CREATE YOUR WORLD
MAKE CHOICES THAT INSPIRE YOUR HEART
Discover What Creates Healthy, Happy Relationships
See How Choices are Guiding Your Life
This inspiring approach to the complexities of the relationship journey can assist you to create connections that serve you as you walk through the adventure of self-awareness. This is a reminder of the power of your choices and your love.
MAKE CHOICES THAT INSPIRE YOUR HEART
Discover What Creates Healthy, Happy Relationships
See How Choices are Guiding Your Life
- 33 Steps to Harmonic Relationships
- Heal Your Wounded Heart
- Wake Up Your Life
- Open Your Heart to Love
- Embrace the Differences of Men and Women
- Be Free to Be Yourself
- See Why You Attract Certain People
- Address Relationship Challenges
This inspiring approach to the complexities of the relationship journey can assist you to create connections that serve you as you walk through the adventure of self-awareness. This is a reminder of the power of your choices and your love.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Acknowledgments
Walk With Me
Introduction
About This Information
CHAPTER 1
YOU ARE YOUR MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP
Confusion About Choice
In the Beginning There Was You
Learn from the Children
The Cave of Darkness
Where is Your Life Leading You?
Live Your Truth
Staying Awake
What’s Real?
Trust the Voice of Your Intuition
What Has Your Attention?
Claim Your Personal Freedom
Exercise
CHAPTER 2
YOU AND YOUR SHADOW
Face Your Weaknesses
Confronting Fear
Emotional Toxins
Separation
Suppression
Emotional Buttons
Inner Freedom is Bliss
Exercise
CHAPTER 3
LOVE IS ALL THERE IS
Love is More Powerful than Fear
Awaken Your Passion Through Your Purpose
Life is Exciting or Exhausting
You Have the Power
Exercise
CHAPTER 4
WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?
Your Ego Self
Emotional Waves
Drugs or Alcohol
Showing Your Weaknesses
Who’s to Blame?
It’s a Small Mind After All
Step into Your Power of Awareness
Kinesiology
Thoughts are Contagious
Setting Healthy Boundaries
Conclusive Thinking
Switch the Channel
Here Comes the Judge
Feedback – A Clear Reflection
What or Who Can You Trust?
Exercise
CHAPTER 5
MEN AND WOMEN
Embracing Our Differences
Balancing in This New Energy
We Need to Talk
Communication
Words of Control
Battle of the Sexes
Turn Yourself On
Honoring Your Personal Space
Dumping Your Trash
Living Outside the Box
Kissing a Frog
You are Amazing
Power of a Woman
As You Thinkith
Different Viewpoints
Ask First
Sexy is as Sexy Does
Why Men Don’t Confide
Why Women Confide So Much
Constructive Criticism is a Fallacy
Honest Feedback – No Agenda
Mutual Support
Get Past Being Mad at Each Other
Appreciation
Exercise
CHAPTER 6
STAGE I OF RELATIONSHIPS
You Are So Fine – Attraction
Get Comfortable with Yourself First
Humor is Natures Healing Elixir
Good Vibrations
You are Wonderful
Seduction is a Destructive Game
Is it Lust or Is it Love
Falling in Love with Potential
Rejection
I Must Have You
The Dance of Attraction
Drop the Mask Before You Drop Your Clothes
Being Seen
Your Wounded Heart
Your Love is a Gift
Trust
Exercise
CHAPTER 7
STAGE II OF RELATIONSHIP
The Adventure
Enabling – Co-dependency
Clear Up the Past
You Are NOT Who I Thought You Were
Who’s In Charge?
Your Wake-Up Call delete
From Attachment to Cooperation
Unconditional Love
Breaking Conventional Molds
Connection
Your Relationship Adventure
Building Your Relationship Team
You Don’t Know Each Other
Know Yourself Wisely
The Games You Play
Exercise
CHAPTER 8
THE POWER of INTIMACY AND SEX
Intimate Connections
Sex Changes Everything
You Can Look, but Don’t Touch
Same Sex Relationships
Monogamy
Your Expanding World
Distorted Love
Ownership
Withholding Love
You Are Worth It
A Man’s Vitality – Men Give
A Woman’s Vitality – Women Receive
Chaos
Take Care of Yourself
Casual Sex
Conquest Sex
Angry Sex
Fantasy Sex
Profound Sexual Love
Exercise
Walk With Me
Introduction
About This Information
CHAPTER 1
YOU ARE YOUR MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP
Confusion About Choice
In the Beginning There Was You
Learn from the Children
The Cave of Darkness
Where is Your Life Leading You?
Live Your Truth
Staying Awake
What’s Real?
Trust the Voice of Your Intuition
What Has Your Attention?
Claim Your Personal Freedom
Exercise
CHAPTER 2
YOU AND YOUR SHADOW
Face Your Weaknesses
Confronting Fear
Emotional Toxins
Separation
Suppression
Emotional Buttons
Inner Freedom is Bliss
Exercise
CHAPTER 3
LOVE IS ALL THERE IS
Love is More Powerful than Fear
Awaken Your Passion Through Your Purpose
Life is Exciting or Exhausting
You Have the Power
Exercise
CHAPTER 4
WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?
Your Ego Self
Emotional Waves
Drugs or Alcohol
Showing Your Weaknesses
Who’s to Blame?
It’s a Small Mind After All
Step into Your Power of Awareness
Kinesiology
Thoughts are Contagious
Setting Healthy Boundaries
Conclusive Thinking
Switch the Channel
Here Comes the Judge
Feedback – A Clear Reflection
What or Who Can You Trust?
Exercise
CHAPTER 5
MEN AND WOMEN
Embracing Our Differences
Balancing in This New Energy
We Need to Talk
Communication
Words of Control
Battle of the Sexes
Turn Yourself On
Honoring Your Personal Space
Dumping Your Trash
Living Outside the Box
Kissing a Frog
You are Amazing
Power of a Woman
As You Thinkith
Different Viewpoints
Ask First
Sexy is as Sexy Does
Why Men Don’t Confide
Why Women Confide So Much
Constructive Criticism is a Fallacy
Honest Feedback – No Agenda
Mutual Support
Get Past Being Mad at Each Other
Appreciation
Exercise
CHAPTER 6
STAGE I OF RELATIONSHIPS
You Are So Fine – Attraction
Get Comfortable with Yourself First
Humor is Natures Healing Elixir
Good Vibrations
You are Wonderful
Seduction is a Destructive Game
Is it Lust or Is it Love
Falling in Love with Potential
Rejection
I Must Have You
The Dance of Attraction
Drop the Mask Before You Drop Your Clothes
Being Seen
Your Wounded Heart
Your Love is a Gift
Trust
Exercise
CHAPTER 7
STAGE II OF RELATIONSHIP
The Adventure
Enabling – Co-dependency
Clear Up the Past
You Are NOT Who I Thought You Were
Who’s In Charge?
Your Wake-Up Call delete
From Attachment to Cooperation
Unconditional Love
Breaking Conventional Molds
Connection
Your Relationship Adventure
Building Your Relationship Team
You Don’t Know Each Other
Know Yourself Wisely
The Games You Play
Exercise
CHAPTER 8
THE POWER of INTIMACY AND SEX
Intimate Connections
Sex Changes Everything
You Can Look, but Don’t Touch
Same Sex Relationships
Monogamy
Your Expanding World
Distorted Love
Ownership
Withholding Love
You Are Worth It
A Man’s Vitality – Men Give
A Woman’s Vitality – Women Receive
Chaos
Take Care of Yourself
Casual Sex
Conquest Sex
Angry Sex
Fantasy Sex
Profound Sexual Love
Exercise
CHAPTER 9
ADDRESSING RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES
Do You Really Love Me?
Prove Your Love to Me
I’ll Only Give You as Much Love as You Give Me
Do You Wanna’ Fight?
Boredom
Obsession – Pushes Love Away
Conflict
Honoring Your Space
Yielding is Freeing
Exercise
CHAPTER 10
THE ‘M’ WORD - MARRIAGE
Marriage Is Not the Enemy
Whose Marriage Model are You Trying to Fit?
A Loving Partnership
Re-Inventing Marriage
Mama Said – Daddy Said
Sharing a Mutual Purpose
The Marriage Myth
Watch Out for the Ruts
Forever and Ever
What If I Don’t Want Marriage?
Healthy Progression
Love Adds Meaning to Your Life
Exercise
CHAPTER 11
TRANSFORMING RELATIONSHIPS
It’s Bigger Than Both of Us
You Are the Person – the Love You Seek
Who are you
Wake Up
Our Timing Differences
Fear of Loss of Freedom
No Excuse for Abuse
Stay Curious about Each Other
Powerful Men and Women are Redefining Themselves
Changing Your Mind about Relationships
Release Regrets
Breaking Free from the Past
Limited Thinking Invalidates Love
Why Me God?
Connection
Movement
Embracing Change
Recreating the Relationship Game
Love Has No Barriers
Your Hearts Desires
Ask For What You Want
Walking on ‘Eggshells’
Give With All Your Heart
You Know My Buttons ‘Cause You Push Them
Every Day
There Are No Guarantees
Humor
Sexuality
The Relationship Box
What I Love About You
Take Care of Yourself
Powerful Steps to Transform Your Relationships
Exercise
CHAPTER 12
ENDING RELATIONSHIPS
Expectations and Disappointments
Tears are Healing – Stay out of Self Pity
Signs of Emotional Pain
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Are You Living in Memorex?
Easing Your Heart’s Pain
Power of Self-Discovery
Releasing a Relationship
Safely Release Painful Emotions
Take Some Positive Action
Take Time to Heal
Vibrational Attraction
How We Respond to a Breakup
Broken Connections
Romantic Fantasy Leaves Your Heart Aching
Unfulfilled Expectations
Living with Your Choices
Nothing to Forgive
Who Are You Attracting into Your Life?
When Trust is Broken
Your Cheat’n Heart
When Your Heart Breaks
Revenge Anchors Bitterness in Your Heart
Romantic Tug-of-War
Relationships are Important to Everyone
When it’s Time to Let Them Go
The Ex Factor
Stay Out of the Way
Looking for Answers
That Was a Real Wake-Up Call
Stages of Releasing a Relationship
Approval - Making Your Choices
Embracing Freedom
Clear Your Environment as You Clear Your Heart
Your Attitude of Gratitude
Change is Powerful delete
Write the Next Chapter of Your Life
Exercise
CHAPTER 13
NEW BEGINNINGS
Change your mind stat
Releasing Old Pictures and Programs
Relationships are Important
33 Steps to Harmonic Relationships
Exercise
About the Author
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The Adventure
When two people allow themselves to vibrate the energy of love, free of conditions, bargaining or expectations they can connect spirit to spirit. By being who they truly are, they share themselves in all ways. They trust that they will stay together as long as their vibrations match and it serves their life mission. They realize that they have come together for a purpose and to learn what they need to learn from each other…and so be it.
Lynda Wooding
Excerpt from Lynda Wooding's Book
FREEDOM TO CHOOSE ~
YOUR RELATIONSHIP ADVENTURE
You are often most attractive and powerful
when you are focused on your dream and
unwilling to be swayed by your ego to rule your destiny.
If you go strictly by your ego’s viewpoint, you will be dragged from one drama to the next. You will continue to attract pain and suffering until you give up misery. As long as you remain miserable and suffering you will attract in others who will reinforce your pain and disappointment. Through your expectations you continue to create the dramas you expect.
By remaining awake (conscious) in your relationships, you can see how you attract certain people into your life and what you are to learn from them. If you can observe your experience together as a blessing instead of a punishment, life will take on a whole new meaning.
The ending of my marriage was the worst and best time of my life. A part of my ego died with that relationship. It took a long time to shed the sense of loss and failure, the years of pain and the shattered trust.
When it all broke away, there was only me left. My pride was gone. A new humility filled me. Now I feel a quiet peace, love and awe. Life has become an adventure of wonder.
Relationships attract you so you can experience a larger truth and greater love as you gain a broader sense of yourself.
It is your responsibility to learn something from every relationship. Relationship takes you beyond survival to higher levels of existence and provides you with the opportunity to become more compassionate and nurturing. Yet few people reach this level of responsibility and awareness. They usually get trapped in the day-to-day struggles of survival.
Whatever stops you from loving will continue to surface until you are willing to look at your relationship from a different viewpoint. When you become curious and approach relationships from a higher level of yourself then it can transform.
Once you leave the romantic trappings of your past, you will discover how real, beautiful and powerful relationships are meant to be. You are continually refining and redefining yourself. Once you get past the obsessions that had you seeing relationships as failures or wallowing in your stories of betrayal, you can shift to new levels of compassion and possibly unconditional love.